I legit feel like I'm the only one who will admit women always wanna play the victim. We get ourselves into situations that we know won't be easy to get out of. Most times we create and maintain situations because they give us a sense of identity. We often hold on to people far beyond their ability to serve us, what is worse is that we keep excusing them and fighting ourselves for them. At the end of the day, we want to play victim and blame the man but what we fail to realize is that we allowed everything to happen to us.

When people show you who they are, believe them and walk away but so many times we hold on hoping that they will change. We put up with so much for people who have made it clear that they can't do right by us. Why? Why are we so scared of being alone? Why do we feel we need other people to complete us? We gotta learn to let people go, be strong enough to walk away from such situations. It's not going to be easy, but it’ll get easier when we learn how to love ourselves. Take our time to work on self and get ourselves together.

Don't settle for less than you deserve, God has someone a 💯✔ times better for you.